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(Not) Transforming Culture

There’s a great article in Christianity Today this month by Mark Galli titled On Not Transforming the World. The subtitle is “we have better and harder things to do than that.”

We are certainly responsible for going to the ends of the earth and making disciples from people of every nation. There is plenty in Scripture about doing justice and loving mercy and feeding the hungry and caring for the widow and orphan. But I find little or nothing about us having the task of transforming the culture.

Britt has talked about how Changing the World is something that isn’t found in scripture. At least not something that is assigned to us.

Galli’s article touches on how service is our number one task, in terms of transforming the world:

Servants aren’t about world-changing initiatives as much as about washing the dirty feet of the travelers sitting at their kitchen table. Jesus never tells us to do anything because it will transform the culture. Surprisingly, he didn’t seem interested in transforming the Roman Empire, one of the most oppressive and unjust cultures in history. He seemed rather to think that society would always have economic disparity, and that not only should changing Rome not be a priority, but also we should not even object to underwriting it with our taxes…

I remain puzzled as to why we’re so bored with the very things Jesus asks us to do, like picking that foreigner up out of the ditch, giving away our goods to the poor, going to court with a young man who’s being railroaded by the system, taking an orphan into our home, going the extra mile with the oppressive and manipulative, forgiving the offender, baptizing, and witnessing. I find these things really, really hard to do. I fail all the time. If I can’t even do these things well, why would I believe that I could transform my culture, let alone change the world?

Despite my political rants and opinions, I’ve been learning more and more that it is not our job to make political systems reflect the church. Does that mean we should be apathetic towards politics? I don’t think so. But it makes it all the more difficult to discern when we are pushing our own religious agenda into politics.

People tend to think that Christ’s mission was about transformation, and that in today’s culture, we should redeem the culture (by keeping it sanitary), transform social politics (by enforcing charity), or other high ideals. But by doing so, we are trying to place a significance onto ourselves that simply isn’t rooted in scripture. Galli says “we all face the common temptation of Adam and Eve. We want to feel significant.”

Scripture is clear that Christ’s mission was about service, and that this is our mission also. In today’s culture, I think the targets of that service are clear. While it is hard, it is not a complicated thing to fulfill what the scriptures have required of us. And it is about doing it ourselves, not about creating a governmental structure to force everyone else to do it our way.

Divisions and Wisdom

Some of you are saying, “I am a follower of Paul.” Others are saying, “I follow Apollos,” or “I follow Peter,” or “I follow only Christ.” Can Christ be divided into pieces? Was I, Paul, crucified for you? Were any of you baptized in the name of Paul?

For Christ didn’t send me to baptize, but to preach the Good News – and not with clever speeches and high-sounding ideas, for fear that the cross of Christ would lose its power. (1 Corinthians 1:12-13, 17)

Even in the early church, people started picking one “leader” over another. Some were trying to align themselves with Paul, Apollos, or Peter. Basically, these were different guys, they had different approaches to ministry, and some people thought one guy had it “right” moreso than the other. Early on, the church was in danger of being divided. So this is Paul’s attempt to prevent what would eventually become our present-day denominations.

Paul goes on:

As the Scriptures say, “I will destroy human wisdom and discard their most brilliant ideas.” So where does this leave the philosophers, the scholars, and the world’s brilliant debaters? God has made them all look foolish and has shown their wisdom to be useless nonsense. Since God in his wisdom saw to it that the world would never find him through human wisdom, he has used our foolish preaching to save all who believe.

Remember, dear brothers and sisters, that few of you were wise in the world’s eyes, or powerful, or wealthy when God called you. Instead, God deliberately chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose those who are powerless to shame those who are powerful. God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important, so that no one can ever boast in the presence of God. (1 Corinthians 1:19-21, 26-29)

The main point in this passage is that Christ “is the one who made us acceptible to God” (v30). But there is another implication here.

Where did the divisions start? The division started because Paul, Apollos, and Peter each had a unique approach to ministry. And though they each pointed people to Christ, they were influential to the point where people were following them instead of Christ.

Paul is indicating here that the wisdom of man is useless to God – meaning that God will use the foolish and the weak to spread His gospel. Yet our modern-day pastors ensure that their leadership skills are top-notch. They utilize the best statistical methods to make sure their worship services are having an “impact” by tracking attendance, monetary giving, or even the number of cars in the parking lot. They employ the best consultants to help them tweak their message and presentation to be friendly to their target demographic. This kind of approach is the exact same thing any modern-day CEO would do. This is the best of human wisdom. If it can grow a profitable company, of course it can grow a church.

But the proof is in the pudding, as they say. Or in the fruit, as Christ said. In his research, George Barna paints a bleak picture that the “churched” population is still lost. This is the result of human wisdom – building large buildings, filling them with a lot of people, but the end result being that you can’t tell them apart from the rest of the world. And on top of that, division between believers is stronger than it ever has been.

Paul seems to paint a different picture. But in order to get there, we have to learn to not rely on human wisdom. Which means a lot less of acting like a CEO would, and a lot more acting as Jesus did when He chose the twelve and told them to train others in a similar fashion.

“Clever speeches and high-sounding ideas.” Doesn’t that sound exactly like what a typical approach to church is today?

The Completeness of Scripture

Something struck me last week, and it’s become a focal point of my thoughts about being a follower of Christ and joining in fellowship with other followers.

The Old Testament was a complete system. In order words, it contained a covenant between God and man, and all of the directions you needed to follow in order to fulfill your obligation within that covenant. The law was complete – nothing needed to be added to it (though the Jews continued to add to it anyway through their legalism). And nothing was to be taken away from it.

It has been apparent to me for years that the New Testament represented a new covenant. The veil was torn in two – we no longer require a priest, performing sacrifices, the Jewish celebration days… all of those specific instructions no longer apply.

But the modern church we grew up with looked nothing like the church described in Acts, and in the letters of the New Testament. Certainly nothing like what Christ Himself did while He was here. So the thought was that while this is a new covenant, the New Testament was not a complete description of it. It did not explain everything. The role of an apostle, so vivid in the New Testament, was explained away as only necessary during the founding of the church. Likewise with prophecy, miraculous healing, and speaking in tongues (the latter only if you’re not Pentecostal, but I have my own opinions about how they’re not using the gift as described in the New Testament).

I believe that the changes I have gone through in the last couple of years has led me to this point: that the New Testament is as complete a description of the new covenant as the Old Testament is a complete description of the old covenant.

In the Old Testament, God told them exactly how to build the temple. What types of materials to use. In what way to perform the sacrifices, and exactly who was qualified to do it. Everything was given to them, down to the letter, in terms of how they were to relate to each other and to God.

I now believe that the same is true of the New Testament. We are not told how to build our temple because we are not supposed to have one. Christ told the woman at the well that the structure can no longer be the focal point of worship – yet our churches still sing about how holy the sanctuary is.

Christ told us exactly how to relate to God – to love Him with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. And how to relate to each other – to love our neighbors as ourselves. And the new commandment was that by loving each other, people will know that we are His followers.

Then Acts and the letters in the New Testament proceed to give us a full description of what that should look like. Meeting in each other’s homes. Reaching out to people where they are. Doing miraculous works. Sharing the gospel with others. Helping out each other in every need.

Finally, I understand that we don’t have to be creative, visionary, or strategic. I simply have to be obedient to the principles and directions laid out in the New Testament.

Britt had a series awhile back called Things I Can’t Find in the Bible. It’s a list of twenty things that are incredibly common in modern church that are simply not described in the New Testament:

Friendship Evangelism
Asking Jesus into Your Heart
Christian Entertainment (and the PS)
Seminary Education
Denominations
Dressing Up For Church
Priest Class Under the New Covenant
Ordination of Man
Political Action
Having a Building
Registered Membership
Christians as Sinners
Day of the Week
Specific Ministry Positions
Preparing for Sermons (and the intermission)
Order of Worship
Christian Tithing (and the addendum)
Material Wealth as a Sign of Faith
End of the Gifts of the Spirit
Changing the World

In his conclusion, Britt said:

Looking back, it seems like I have systematically questioned what many consider foundational Christianity. Maybe I have. But ultimately I only want to experience the complete freedom in Christ that results in great joy, power, authority and peace. I find that greatly lacking in most of the Christians I meet from day to day.

We’ve shrugged off much of the apostasy that the Catholic church introduced into Christianity. But there are still so many things that we cling to that are simply not described in the New Testament. As Wolfgang Simson said:

If it was possible for the very essence of the gospel – salvation by faith, justification by grace – to be buried under the sand of history, what about the rest? If we can gravely err in the very key and core issues, could we also have erred in other, lesser issues? The fact that the Bible was again given into the hands of common people started what I call the history of rediscovery: it was the turning point where the church started to climb again out of darkness, escape its own structural prison and rediscover, step by step, long-forgotten truth and long-forgotten practices, including the house church as an organic form of church.

I think the end result of adding things onto the New Testament has lessened the degree to which Christians experience joy, power, authority, and peace. I no longer think of these things as simply extra-biblical – I now think of them as a hindrance. Naturally, it takes time to shrug off traditions of the past, but I believe that this is where God is leading His church – to a point where where are reliant only upon Him, and not tradition. And the first step is to see what God intended for us, as described in a complete covenant, as distinct from where we find ourselves today.

Balance, Drinking, and Sin

“Don’t smoke, drink, cuss, or chew, or hang out with those who do.”

“I can assure you of this: if you are associated with the use of beverage alcohol, I think I dare exaggerate not to say that 99% of all doors of ministry in the Southern Baptist Convention will be closed to you.” – Al Mohler, president of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, 2005

As Dan Kimball asks, “would Jesus then have 99% of the ministry doors shut on Him?” Apparently, in the Southern Baptist world, the answer to that question would be “yes.”

I think that the concept of “balance” is one that is lost on traditional Christianity. To be fair, though, the situation is improving. But every now and then you’re reminded that there is still a lack of tolerance in the Christian world to things such as drinking alcohol.

I’ve heard many stories from people who grew up in churches where you couldn’t go to the movie theater, couldn’t go to the ballpark, couldn’t go to the bowling alley, couldn’t use playing cards, etc. because of the association those places had with “sinful” activities such smoking, drinking, cussing, and chewing.

Yet there is a simple truth – while all of them are potentially harmful and/or disgusting, we simply cannot label smoking, drinking, cussing, or chewing sin.

True enough, smoking regularly will kill you. But I know someone who smokes one cigarette a year. Is that sin? Binge drinking is dangerous, and damages relationships and bodily functions. But Jesus turned water into wine. Was that sin? While the Bible says we should not take the Lord’s name in vain (a concept much more complex than we make it out to be), standards of speech are entirely subjective and culture-specific, and words flow in and out of vulgarity over the ages. How can we label uttering a specific word sin? And as disgusting as I think chewing tobacco is, how is it any different from smoking?

The issues surrounding all of these issues are simply related to “balance.”

As an example:

Nevada Couple Blame Internet for Neglect
RENO, Nev. – A couple who authorities say were so obsessed with the Internet and video games that they left their babies starving and suffering other health problems have pleaded guilty to child neglect.

The children of Michael and Iana Straw, a boy age 22 months and a girl age 11 months, were severely malnourished and near death last month when doctors saw them after social workers took them to a hospital, authorities said. Both children are doing well and gaining weight in foster care, prosecutor Kelli Ann Viloria told the Reno Gazette-Journal.

Michael Straw, 25, and Iana Straw, 23, pleaded guilty Friday to two counts each of child neglect. Each faces a maximum 12-year prison sentence.

Viloria said the Reno couple were too distracted by online video games, mainly the fantasy role-playing “Dungeons & Dragons” series, to give their children proper care.

This is a classic example of how we don’t know how to balance our lives. Michael Straw received $50,000 in an inheritance, and spent it on a new plasma TV and computers. Then he and his wife tuned everything else out, including their children.

Somewhere out there, there’s probably a pastor who is preparing a sermon on how evil games are, and how good Christians shouldn’t own an XBox or Playstation. That type of reaction would have been quite common fifty years ago. Instead of such a reaction, we should be talking about how to appropriately balance such activities, and how to recognize when an activity begins to consume us.

At the Catalyst Conference last year, Louie Giglio discussed a Christian winemaker as an illustration, and mentioned that he and his wife enjoy wine occasionally.

On the official Catalyst blog post summarizing that session, they had to shut down comments. The anti-drinker comments got particularly nasty, and of course prompted nasty comments from the opposing side. But in the end, Louie took a lot of flack for admitting that he (gasp!) enjoys wine.

Trying to prevent any consumption of alcohol is an attempt to push us back into legalism, the same kind of legalism that said that bowling was a sin. The same kind of legalism that said that Christ couldn’t heal on the Sabbath. Getting drunk is a sin – that’s clear in the New Testament. But to take the step further and say that therefore we can’t drink at all, is once again acting like the Pharisees.

In any case, if Jesus were to step back into this world today, he’d be hanging out in the bars and reaching out to the people there. And just like the Pharisees back then, the Baptists (among others) would be outside complaining about it.

Full disclosure: I don’t drink. I honestly don’t like the taste of alcohol. But stuff like this makes me want to acquire the taste for it…

Weekend Wrapup

Worship – Last week I got to play bass, this week I got to play lead guitar. There’s a world of difference between playing guitar while you’re leading worship and just playing guitar – and again, I haven’t done that in a long time. I had a blast. It didn’t hurt that we did a few songs that totally rocked out as well!

I’m going to have to scale down how much I help out over the next couple of months, though – Amy will be at 32 weeks tomorrow. Given that McKenna and Jeremiah were both born at 37 weeks, and that like them, this little girl is measuring two weeks ahead, we really have only a few weeks left to get things ready. The baby’s room is still a “guest” room, the hospital bag is only halfway packed, and we need to make a final decision on a name! Time to get cracking!

Friends – I helped my good friend (and former pastor) Pat load up yesterday for a few hours. Tomorrow, they’re moving to Indiana where Pat has taken a pretty cool position at Indiana Wesleyan University. They’ve been some of our closest friends over the years. We’ve shared ministry, frustrations, dreams, and vacations together. Pat and Alison had only been married a couple of years when they first stayed at our house on their first visit to Goergia, just like Amy and I at the time. And as they’re leaving they have three kids, we’re about to have our third.

We’ve known this was coming for long time, and we had already been serving God in separate ministries for over a year. But we’re still sad to see them go. I just had this secret hope that something would pop up for them closer to Georgia! But they’ll be close to their family, Pat will be close to Anderson University (where he’s working on his doctorate), and the job at Indiana Wesleyan is really cool.

I hope God will direct our paths to cross again, but if not, we know that just means we’ll have to wait just a bit longer to serve God together again.

Quotable: Community

In The Crucible of Korea, my brother Britt has been posting about what He learned from His years in Korea and traveling abroad. The whole thing is good, but this quote is a great summary of what we’ve all been learning over the years:

Community is the most important aspect of the Body of Christ. You will grow to the degree you have intimate relationships with other believers. Without them it is only an organization. It is not the Church.

House Church – Recap

I was looking back at my archives the other day and realized that it was over three months between writing Part 5 and Part 6. I guess that’s what moving and getting ready for Thanksgiving and Christmas will do to your blogging. In any case, Part 8 was the last part I had planned to write, so I wanted to recap the series. It starts with us leaving our church, sharing my experience and thoughts about my time there, and our experience searching for a new church, discovering house church, and my thoughts about it since.

Deconstruction
Why I Left My Church
Approaching Ministry
Worship Wars Part 1 – My Background
Worship Wars Part 2 – Compromise and the Excitement Factor
Worship Wars Part 3 – Why It Shouldn’t Be a War, Anyway

Reconstruction
Why We Have Chosen House Church
Part 1 – Some Definitions
Part 2 – vs. Small Groups
Part 3 – vs. Cell Churches
Part 4 – Intermission and Coexistence
Part 5 – Some History
Part 6 – Men and Open Formats
Part 7 – What Would Jesus Do With Ten Million Dollars?
Part 8 – Unbelievers “Get It”

Looking back over these past six months, I’m amazed at how much has changed. We left our church, considered a move to New York, found a house church, and moved into a new house. I’m particularly amazed at how many of my thoughts were leading us directly into house church, before we had ever made a decision to go that route, much less visited one. Below is an example from Approaching Ministry:

Most churches understand the family aspect as social gatherings. We know each other, we enjoy hanging out together, and we do favors for each other. That’s a great start. But we’re really called to live life together. Jesus didn’t just see the twelve a couple of times a week. They lived together. They slept together, ate together, traveled together, worshipped together, and ministered together. Real family cannot be experienced in a group of a thousand, five hundred, or even fifty. We have to get smaller, but we have to seek something more than just “small groups.” We need to take a more basic view of church family, and seek our primary connection with the church through a family-sized unit instead of a congregational one.

Lord, thank You for leading us to a place that fulfills, even if only dimly, the vision You have given us. Our house church isn’t perfect, as none are. But the reality is, it is in this environment where we can practice Your example of living life together, of sharing our burdens with each other as a part of our regular worship, and seeking Your will for our gatherings.

House Church, Pt. 8 – Unbelievers "Get It"

It’s official – as if blogging about house church for the past five months doesn’t prove that I’ve been drinking the house church Kool-Aid, I’ve had to defend my comments against the pastor of a megachurch from a neighboring state.

Being a worship leader at a somewhat small conventional church (100-150), over the past two years I’ve been asking a lot of questions about how conventional churches approach things. I had been struggling with implementing things that I knew would help the church grow, but the culture of the church wouldn’t accept certain changes easily. Further, even at our size, I saw that we had many of the same problems that plague churches that are much larger. So while I’ve never been on staff at a church, I have some insight into some of the same problems that people are struggling with at larger conventional churches.

I still read many of the blogs that I have been reading over the past couple of years, where they ask a lot of the same questions I had been asking as I was struggling with what God wanted me to do. On these blogs, I now tend to comment about what I have found is the answer – greatly simplifying the church and stripping it down to relationships and discipleship – two things that worship services at conventional churches are, quite frankly, pathetic at achieving.

I’ve noticed that people on staff at megachurches, and to some degree, those that attend megachurches, are the ones who have the hardest time “getting” the idea of a house church. To them, a church simply isn’t successful unless it’s reaching thousands every week. In many ways, that is their experience and that is their standard. So when you try to communicate the benefits of house church, they can’t comprehend it.

In this particular case, this pastor said that “the house church model has ONE problem – they neglect the great commission. If Jesus would have wanted us to sit around and suck thumbs… He would have commanded it.” He later tried to smooth things over, but the fact is that he just couldn’t accept the house church as legitimate.

In contrast, I get a completely different reaction when I talk with people who are not really connected with a church. This includes people who have never gone to a church, people who used to go to a church but walked completely away (for various reasons), and even people who attend church irregularly. They appreciate the idea that we can put a huge amount of our time and money, into helping other people. They understand the concept of focusing on spiritual development outside of a presentational atmosphere, and why this is preferable to what conventional churches focus on. They can view the gospel without all of the extra stuff – they can see that we’re not selling a church brand, a product that comes with a lot of earthly fringe benefits. They can appreciate that we’re not trying to entice them to the gospel with beautiful buildings, angelic choirs, huge pipe organs, rock bands whose members sport spiked hair, and huge video screens so that we can see the famous pastor preaching the message in another building miles and miles away.

People who are not Christians that I have talked to about house church tend to say things like, “that makes a lot of sense.” People who are Christians that I have talked to about house church, if they attend a conventional church, tend to tilt their head to the side and say things like, “huh.” People who are on staff of large conventional churches tend to tell me I’m wrong.

It’s strange, but it seems like the religious establishment disagrees with what Barna calls a “Revolution.” Are there any other religious figures you can think of who did things that rubbed the religious establishment the wrong way? It’s good to be in the company of God’s prophets.

Whether or not unbelievers get it doesn’t really affect my decision to follow Christ in the context of a house church, but it is a great testimony to the simplicity and accessibility of the format. Churches are struggling, trying to figure out how to reach the post-modern generation that is rising. Many conventional churches even struggle to figure out what “post-modern” is. The very group of people the church has the least capability of connecting with, those with a post-modern worldview that for the most part has no background in Christianity, are much more receptive to the idea of a house church than they are to a conventional church.

Remember, in 380 AD, bishops Theodosius and Gratian, operating with the full authority of the Roman government, required all Roman citizens to be members of the single, state-recognized, orthodox church, and banned all other churches, including those meeting in homes. Less than 350 years after Christ’s death, the exact form that Christ himself used to disciple the twelve was banned from the church.

I pray that our brothers and sisters in conventional churches will pray for our success, and not be threatened by it. I pray that they will not choose to follow the path of the Jewish council, Roman government, and even Martin Luther, who all chose to persecute those who believed that following God did not include following professional clergy, but included simply meeting together, studying scripture, confessing their sins, and praying for one another.

The reality, though, is that if persecution is to come, it will come with the blessing of the established religious system. It always has.

House Church, Pt. 7 – What Would Jesus Do With Ten Million Dollars?

If you’re a pastor, and you’re getting ready to start a church, one of your primary roles is that of a fund-raiser. The simple fact is, to have a church you have to have money. (Well, for a conventional church, that is.)

I’m throwing ten million out there just for kicks, but it is a justifiable number. Of course, you’ll get started in a home, a school theater (or lunchroom, gym, etc.), or other cheap-rent options, but from day one you’re looking to secure the land to build on one day. And that land is not cheap. In Gwinnett County, where I live, they have minimum acreage requirements for churches. And land is expensive here, as it is in most metro areas. Even if the land is donated, you’re still committing a lot of resources to holding a piece of real estate until you can build on it.

Then, of course, you have construction costs. Even for a small church of a couple of hundred (you do have a vision to grow, right?), the costs will grow into the millions, even if you do things on the cheap and skimp here and there (for which you’ll eventually regret it). If you do it “the right way,” you’re talking about a multi-million dollar facility for a couple of hundred people.

All told, ten million isn’t that far-fetched for start-up and construction costs for a new church. If you’re talking major expansions of large churches, ten million is nothing.

So let’s think for a moment, based on our knowledge of Scripture, what would Jesus have done with those ten million dollars?

Give it to the poor?

Is there anything else you can think of?

I can’t imagine, in any way, that Jesus would have commissioned a new building to house His ministry. That He would have encouraged His disciples to design an eye-catching sign with a nifty slogan. That He would have invested in a top-rate band in order to create a buzz about the quality of the music. That he would have made sure the pews were padded so that people would be comfortable while they listened to Him preach.

That doesn’t make those things evil, or necessarily wrong, but it raises questions about how appropriate they are.

Jesus’ style of sending His disciples out was pretty simple: “take nothing for the journey – no staff, no bag, no bread, no money, no extra tunic. Whatever house you enter, stay there until you leave that town.” (Luke 9: 3-4, NIV) To anyone who had money, Jesus didn’t solicit funds for Himself or His own ministry.

Jesus said to the rich young ruler, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.” (Matthew 19:21, NIV) We like to dismiss this directive by claiming that this guy was rich, so Jesus was giving that guy a message specific to him. In order to take that approach, we have to ignore what Jesus said directly to his disciples:

But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well. Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom. Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide purses for yourselves that will not wear out, a treasure in heaven that will not be exhausted, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. (Luke 12:31-34, NIV)

The fact is, Jesus was pretty clear about where His financial priorities were.

Would Jesus have taken ten million and build a beautiful building to house His ministries? Absolutely not.

One of the reasons I love house church is that no money is needed to care for a building, janitors, secretaries, etc. Some house churches do pay their pastors, but usually they do not, and if they do it would not be a full-time salary. Most leaders of house churches choose to set the example of earning their own living, as Paul clearly recommended. You can’t really support a pastor full-time with a dozen or so members, anyway.

So where does the money go?

It goes to whatever causes God leads us to support, whether individually or collectively. The resources of a house church go to help the poor, support widows, orphans, halfway houses, and other types of ministries that, I believe, Jesus would give His money to.

Many churches give money out of their budget to help the poor. But if you’re in a church where that figure exceeds 10% of the church’s budget, consider yourself in a select group. Even still, the other 90% goes directly into the building that you worship in, or the staff that are there primarily to serve you. In most cases, that building does NOT help the poor, it is helping you.

I believe it is much better for us to give our money completely away, to those who are poor and who are in desparate need, rather than to donate so that I can attend church in a better, bigger building with more comfortable seats and a modern media presentation system. I think we miss the opportunity to be truly selfless when we give our tithe to our local church, because the majority of that money is used on things that keep us attracted, and serve us, rather than aiding those who truly need it.

Megashift

I thought it might be helpful to quote, in full, a section from a book I recently read that led directly to the thoughts I shared in my previous post about men and open formats. The book was Megashift by David Rutz. Awesome book, I highly recommend it. Take a moment to read my brother’s review of the book and see if it interests you. I picked it up based on his recommendation, and I didn’t regret it.

In chapter 4 of Megashift, “The New Church,” Rutz shares “thirty hallmarks of emerging, scripture-based fellowships.” This includes house churches, but Rutz is more focused on open fellowships than he is on size or structure. Anyway, enjoy.

In open fellowships, men are a slight majority.

Men go to open meetings:

  • to get their marching orders from the Commander of the Hosts of Heaven.
  • to model true discipleship by telling how the Lord strengthened them that week.
  • to stand up and proclaim the awesome wisdom and love of the Creator who has spoken to them in Scripture.
  • to take their rightful place as men learning to be leaders in the household of God.
  • In open churches around the world, men have a role to play, a man’s role.

    Men feed on challenges. Can’t live without them. We grew up and thrived in a boy culture where I double-dare ya’! was only slighly less impelling than cries of Chicken!

    Someone recently wrote an update on Karl Barth’s aphorism that “The Word became flesh – and then, through theologians, became words again.” The new, improved version reads: “Jesus Christ turns wimps into men. And then the church turns them back into wimps again.”

    You don’t grow strong men by making them sit in rows. You grow strong men by whacking them on the shoulder and saying, “On your feet, Pete! What has God been showing you this week?”

    Strong males who are forced to be pew warmers are like the bench warmers in football: They’re aching to grab the coach by the lapels, get in his face and yell, “Jus put me in the game! Just gimme the ball!”

    In team Christianity, as in war, everybody is in the game, and everybody gets his hands on the ball. Typically, men will do roughly 60% of the talking and women 40%. That’s not something we aim for, it’s just what happens – and everyone seems to like it that way.

    SIDE NOTE ON BOYS: Step one in God’s plan for re-establishing fathers and fatherhood is to have a boy sitting in church next to his parents when his dad stands up, and every eye in the place is on Dad as he opens his Bible and says, “The Lord showed me something in Galatians yesterday, and I think we need to hear it…”

    As I said before, lions don’t grow in small cages. And after a lifetime in a cage, it does no good to set them free, either. Zoo-born animals fed by keepers never learn to survive in the wild.

    Rousseau observed that men are born free, yet are everywhere in chains. I would add that men are born wild at heart, yet our churches are filled with captured lions, tamed pew-sitters who no longer know – if they ever knew – how to feed themselves spiritually, how to defend their families from evil, and how to attack their true prey, the devil.

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