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Site Update

So I’ve updated the site layout a little bit. Nothing drastic, but I wanted to highlight the improvements:

Different Font – I got tired of Trebuchet. It’s a nice font, but it looks awful without ClearType. Also, it’s just too curvy for online use, especially at a medium font size. So I decided on Arial. It’s so Write.exe (a Windows 3.1 reference for any non-geeks out there), but it’s also very Web 2.0.

Width Limit – Large computer screens are getting more and more common, and there’s just no reason for my blog to word-wrap text at 1440 pixels. But I also hate fixed-width web design, where you can’t see everything horizontally unless you’re browser window is big enough. So I’ve got the best of both – the site is resizable between about 600 pixels (small enough for an 640×480 screen) and about 1000 pixels (fill most of a 1024×768 screen).

New Header – I changed the font used in the header to reflect my more musical nature.

Updated Sidebar – My sister got married almost a year ago. And it took me that long to put Jason’s name on the sidebar… I’ll admit it, I’m a slacker! I also added links to some of my favorite political and programming sites that I read (or contribute to). And now up at the top are my “critical posts.” These are the handful of things I’ve written that most define what I believe and how I think.

New Photo Albums – I’ve added a link to my Picasa photo album. I’m still behind on getting everything moved over, but that’s where the new baby pictures will go. Eventually, videos, too. And it has its own RSS feed, so you can know as soon as I get around to putting more pictures up there.

Baby Watch: The Contractions Strike Back

Part 2 of the saga… Amy woke me up at about 3:30 am today to let me know that the contractions she had been feeling before we went to bed were about 4-5 minutes apart. Still not very painful, but they were keeping her from getting back to sleep. So she did the checklist of things to see if they lessened – go to the bathroom, take a bath, have a snack, etc. At 4:30 am things hadn’t really changed, so I called my mom and she called the doctor. The doctor was still in the mindset to try to stop the labor, so he went ahead and told us to come in.

We got to the hospital around 7:00 am. The contractions had slowed down a little bit by that time, about 8 minutes, but they were thinking about trying some medication. We decided to wait a little longer instead. By 8:30 am they were about 20 minutes apart and they sent us home.

So we’re back at home now. With orders to stay at home until the contractions get painful, and are really progressing. In other words, they are definitely not going to try to stop them next time. Which is fine with us, because we don’t want any more false alarms! But it could tomorrow, next week, who knows?

As they say with any good trilogy, the third installment changes everything. So next time will be the third time we’ve gone to the hospital thinking we’ll have the third baby. Hmm…

Baby Watch: Heading Back Home

Well, things have slowed down enough that they’re sending us back home. We have no clue how long it will be until we have to come back – things could pick back up anytime. But at least we can wait it out at home instead of having to wait here.

We’ll keep you all posted on how things are going. They’re hoping we can put this off for another week or so. Keep us in your prayers!

UPDATE: Things are still calm as of this evening. Amy is still having a 3 or so contractions an hour, but they’re not painful. Which isn’t unusual for this point in a pregnancy, anyway. Before we left, the doctor told us to call when things were more intense than they were yesterday – which indicated to me that they won’t try to stop it next time.

Baby Watch: At the Hospital

Amy called me at 9:30 this morning saying that she was having contractions. And that she had three of them in the course of 15 minutes. They weren’t the typical, minor pre-term contractions, either. These were painful.

After a couple hours of resting, and talking with the doctor on the phone, we came in to the hospital at about noon. We’ve been here since, and they’ve not been able to lessen the contractions with the medication they’ve tried. Things haven’t really progressed yet, so there’s still a slim chance that they’ll go away. But we’ll be staying overnight in any case, while they monitor the contractions.

The couple of hours we had at home this morning gave us a little bit of time to finish getting some stuff packed and for my mom to come over to watch the kids. So we’re ready if it is indeed time. Amy is at 34 weeks, which is a little earlier than ideal. But our other kids were born at 37 weeks at over eight pounds – based on some estimates from ultrasounds a few weeks ago, this little girl should be over six pounds when she’s born. But we would definitely appreciate your prayers!

And yes, I’ll post here when we’re sure this is it. They’ve added free Wi-Fi here since the last time we did this three and a half years ago. So you’ll see a birth announcement up here within a hours instead of days.

More Harry Potter

From Rowling Pulls It Off:

It has been widely observed that J.K. Rowling owes a creative debt to Christian fantasists J.R.R. Tolkien and C.S. Lewis (apart from their fondness for initials). It’s odd now to remember that, at the same time, some parents have objected to the magic depicted in the Harry Potter books as a glorification of satanic practices. For “Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows” confirms something else apart from the well-thought-out-ness of Ms. Rowling’s moral universe: It is subtly but unmistakably Christian.

The principal Hogwarts holidays have always been Christmas and Easter, but it took five books before Ms. Rowling really began tipping her hand. In Book Six, “Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince,” she addressed concepts of free will, the power of love, and the sanctity of the soul. But in the final volume she gently lays it all out. The preciousness of each human life; bodily resurrection after death; mercy, forgiveness and redemption; sacrificial love overcoming the powers of evil–strip away the elves, goblins, broomsticks and magic wands and these are the concepts that underpin the marvelously intricate world of Harry Potter.

Actually the series has always addressed the concepts of love and free will in a way consistent with Christianity. But the Christian imagery was definitely strongest in the seventh book, and quite unmistakable – including imagery of the cross, quotation of scripture, and a Christ-like death and resurrection. Neville Longbottom also reminded me of David in some ways – the gentle boy who was willing to face the greatest evil. Other characters show true regret and remorse for their previous actions, and others reveal a capacity for total forgiveness.

While it would be hard to beat the level of Christian imagery in the Chronicles of Narnia, I do think the Christian imagery is probably as strong (or stronger) in Harry Potter than it is in Lord of the Rings. Christians should re-think their stance on Harry Potter.

Harry Potter

I just finished the seventh and last Harry Potter book this morning. It was very, very good.

I read the first Harry Potter book back in March, and read through each one after that, and finished the sixth book over a month ago. I decided that I wanted to read the fifth book before the movie came out, and to have finished all six before the seventh book came out. I was the same way about the Lord of the Rings series – when I found out the movie series was coming, I read through all of the books (including The Hobbit) before the first movie came out.

The Harry Potter series was a very rewarding series to read. Rewarding in the sense that each successive book reveals more of the story, intertwines more of the characters, and creates a progression to the end of the last book. I’m seriously thinking about re-reading the series again – because of the way things (and characters) that you didn’t think were important early on become very important in the end.

We also saw the fifth movie last week, and they did a great job adapting it from the fifth book.

I think one of the things I liked most about the Harry Potter series is that he’s not an infallible hero. He’s a hero, but he makes mistakes. He gets things wrong sometimes. But unlike the villain in the series, it’s Harry’s friends and his relationships with others that helps him to make the right decisions, and figure out what it is that he needs to do, and helps him get it done. He keeps trying to do things on his own in order to protect them, but then he realizes that he has to trust and rely on others. It’s a constant theme throughout the series, that love is the best weapon that Harry has, and the only weapon that his enemy cannot understand.

I understand why some Christians have a problem with this series, but it’s no different from Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Mary Poppins, or any number of other magical-oriented stories oriented towards children. The primary difference is that they call them “witches” and “wizards.” I fully believe that if Rowling had used a different term for a female magician (or had only applied it to the villains), Christians would not have reacted as they have. In any case, the values and themes portrayed by the books are very positive.

It’s a fascinating series, I highly recommend it. And if you enjoy movies, and haven’t started watching the Harry Potter movies yet (I know a few of you haven’t), do so. They’re quite good, and getting better. Trust me, you’ll want to see the sixth and seventh movies when they come out. Or better yet, just read all seven books.

Weekend Wrapup

Family – My sister Shane and her husband Jason left for Germany on Friday. They’ll be sharing their experience on their blog. They’ll be there for nine months, with a visit back in January. We’ll miss them, but this is a great opportunity for them!

Harry Potter – Just finished the seventh and final book this morning. I’ll share my thoughts in another post, but it was very, very good.

Baby Watch – I got the “guest room” cleaned out, with some help from Britt. So we’re one step closer to being ready for a new baby girl! Now we’re on the lookout for a dresser and some other miscellaneous stuff. Amy’s back has been doing better over the last couple of weeks, which has been a blessing. But she still wants to speed up time and get to the end of this pregnancy.

Home Improvements – We’re getting closer to finishing our latest major project in this house, which is fixing up the master bathroom. We knew when we bought this house that the shower would need some attention – the grout on the shower floor tile had more or less failed. The trim in the bathroom was also of the shiny brass variety, but the finish was looking pretty rough in a lot of places. We ended up having the shower torn out and had a new one put in with a mixture of ceramic tile and natural stone. We had a plumber in over the weekend to change out all of the fixtures, and we’re having a new shower door put in today. Now we just have to touch up some paint, and we’ll be replacing the lights, towel bars, cabinet knobs, etc. I’ll post some pictures when we’re done, hopefully by next weekend. But it is really coming together, and it’ll look great when it’s done.

SunRocket is Dead

I got rid of BellSouth last year and switched to SunRocket. Overall, I’ve been satisfied with their service. Or, I should say, I had been satisfied. At this point, SunRocket is dead. They’ve laid off nearly all of their employees. Our phone isn’t working. We can’t access our voicemail online.

The thing that is extremely annoying about this? No warning. No notices. Our service stopped working on Monday. SunRocket’s support lines are shut down. They did not respond to my e-mail. Only when I started searching the web did I discover that they were going out of business.

This is a perfect example of abysmal customer service. It would have been simple for them to explain the issue to their customers and warn them that this was coming.

I was at least able to forward our number to Amy’s cell phone so we can get calls. It seems like something is still working over there. But I’ve already started the process to switch to Packet8. Hopefully they’ll stay in business for the next year. And hopefully if they do go out of business they’ll warn their customers before turning off their service.

UPDATE: I finally got an e-mail today (7/20) from SunRocket. Basically, the e-mail tells customers that they are shutting down, and they have set up transfer agreements with Packet8 and TeleBlend. Our phone had a dial-tone last night, but I’m not sure if that will last or if Packet8 has the SunRocket hardware info, or what. Anyway, at least they did finally e-mail customers, even though they should have sent some kind of notice a week ago.

Weekend Wrapup

Worship – Last week I got to play bass, this week I got to play lead guitar. There’s a world of difference between playing guitar while you’re leading worship and just playing guitar – and again, I haven’t done that in a long time. I had a blast. It didn’t hurt that we did a few songs that totally rocked out as well!

I’m going to have to scale down how much I help out over the next couple of months, though – Amy will be at 32 weeks tomorrow. Given that McKenna and Jeremiah were both born at 37 weeks, and that like them, this little girl is measuring two weeks ahead, we really have only a few weeks left to get things ready. The baby’s room is still a “guest” room, the hospital bag is only halfway packed, and we need to make a final decision on a name! Time to get cracking!

Friends – I helped my good friend (and former pastor) Pat load up yesterday for a few hours. Tomorrow, they’re moving to Indiana where Pat has taken a pretty cool position at Indiana Wesleyan University. They’ve been some of our closest friends over the years. We’ve shared ministry, frustrations, dreams, and vacations together. Pat and Alison had only been married a couple of years when they first stayed at our house on their first visit to Goergia, just like Amy and I at the time. And as they’re leaving they have three kids, we’re about to have our third.

We’ve known this was coming for long time, and we had already been serving God in separate ministries for over a year. But we’re still sad to see them go. I just had this secret hope that something would pop up for them closer to Georgia! But they’ll be close to their family, Pat will be close to Anderson University (where he’s working on his doctorate), and the job at Indiana Wesleyan is really cool.

I hope God will direct our paths to cross again, but if not, we know that just means we’ll have to wait just a bit longer to serve God together again.

I've Been Tagged: 5 Weird Habits

Heath tagged me. This is supposed to be about five weird habits I have. So here goes.

Blogging – I enjoy blogging, and I have a lot of thoughts I want to share, but the weird part is I don’t post nearly as often as I should. But you probably already knew that.

Commenting – I have a knack for posting snarky comments on other people’s blogs. Right now, particularly Josh’s. If I agree with someone a lot, I rarely comment. If I don’t agree with someone at all, I usually stop reading. But if I am pretty close to agreeing with someone and just differ on key points, I end up commenting frequently. And yes, I tend to be that way in real life, too.

Technology – I have what is commonly known as “gear lust.” I love new gadgets, technologies, software, etc. This applies to my passion for music (Line 6 rocks!), computers, gaming, and entertainment. Fortunately I have a wife who helps me rein all of that in and keep it sensible.

Coke – in the South we do not use the term “pop.” Like Q-Tip, Band-Aid, and Kleenex, we say “Coke” around here to refer to any dark-colored carbonated beverage – except Pepsi, which many in the Atlanta area equate with poison. In any case, I drink a good bit of it. Probably too much. Whenever I get around to really trying to lose weight, I know I’ll have to cut down. Probably doing that alone will help me lose a pound a week. Vanilla Coke is my favorite – which to my delight they just brought back!

Sinus – I’ve had sinus troubles for the last several years, including a sinus surgery a couple of years ago. Which helped things tremendously – I’ve had an average of two sinus infections a year since the surgery, down from about eight per year before that, and they’re much less severe now when I do get them. But one way I keep it in check is to rinse my sinuses. I know it sounds weird, but it’s actually quite refreshing, and really helps to keep everything moist and cleaned out. If you have sinus trouble I highly recommend it.

All right, so now is the part where I tag other people. So I’ll pass the torch on to Josh, Pat, and Kevin. Don’t worry guys, no pressure, nothing bad will happen if you don’t pass it on.

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